It's fun, it's exciting, we want each other as often as possible. Intercourse is frequent, and everywhere, which adds even more spice to the antics.

At this point, a new boost in the frequency of intercourse can be felt. Then pregnancy is often experienced differently depending on the couple.

Post-pregnancy and family life also make a big difference. Because we are no longer just a couple, we are becoming parents! And often the couple forget each other. The daily life and this role of educator engulfs us and the couple of lovers sometimes fade away.

It is not a generality. It does not happen like that everywhere!

How to revive the flame and desire?

After several months and years, we quickly forget the little daily attentions. A little kiss on the neck, a caress, a sweet word slipped on a post-it or whispered in your ear, a text during the day to tell him / her that you are thinking of him / her.

• Make time for both of you. A restaurant, a cinema, a massage.
• Feeling desirable, often the libido fluctuates, and if you feel undesirable, you don't really want somersaults. It is difficult but you have to feel good and not just for the other. But also for oneself, sport, hairstyle, make-up. No more pilou-pilou pajamas!
• Create an atmosphere that makes you want to get closer! Candles and clean sheets. We avoid the teddy bear set! We remove the frames with the photos of families or children. The parental room becomes again the marital room where the couple must meet!
• To titillate, to warm up all day long! It's not at 8:30 p.m. when the children are in bed that we start a "so we fuck?" or "By the way, it's payday, tonight's a treat!".
• Contraception can sometimes be a brake on libido. Consider discussing this with your doctor.